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[pythia_dreaming]

Maybe it's just me. maybe I'm weird.
But personally, I find it somwheat rude when someone shows up at my house, doesn't say a word to me and has a go at my guests over something that they didn't even do.
Some people really are surprisingly immature.
Also, my lip feels spicy. I ate hot stuff. So. Spicy.
I miss so many people.

Comments

[pythia.livejournal.com]

Ok.
1. The text you sent him did seem to be confrontational in nature. The fact you automatically assumed that what you'd heard was true. I think he probably hoped that you knew him better than to think he'd do that.

3. I think what he said was that nothing he can say is going to change your mind, and anything he said about it would probably just be turned around and thrown back at him.

2. There's a difference between ignoring someone and simply not making a concerted effort to see them. You don't want to be ignored. Fine. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about. They're both perfectly valid things to want, but they don't go together so well.

Note this is all my opinion.

And sorry about not replying earlier. I wasn't sitting at my computer waiting to reply.

[sasscat.livejournal.com]

1) Oh, god, the fucking text. I'm sorry if it came across as confrontational, I really am. But this "I should have known him better" business -- it wasn't *important*! I didn't care! Why should I stop to question something if it doesn't fucking matter? Someone tells me Brian ate chicken, I might be surprised because I know he doesn't like chicken, but I don't sit there convinced there must have been a miscommunication because I don't *care* if he eats chicken or not.

2) There's a difference, yes. But if I'm used to getting sitreps every wednes-thurs 'weekend', and those stop coming...in the absence of a text saying "I need space" or "don't wanna talk right now" it feels like ignoring. And he said that he would send a text like that so I knew where I fucking stood. He said he would *never* do this.

Reply anytime is fine; I just happened to be at my computer last night.

Don't know what to say about 3. I really don't. He...I thought he valued the friendship enough to want to sort it out, even if it's just to "we fight too much we can't do this".

I am tired and hurting and...I'm afraid this is coming out all wrong. I don't know. I'm just gonna go finish my post to Will, and maybe get some more sleep.